What would you rather do? #TuesdaytellwithTAI

“What would you rather do ? ” was the question i asked her, when she told me about her Predicament with Bolu,  Her eyes were swollen, it was 4pm and she had lost appetite for lunch, i said to myself Theo, is emotionally down. Theo and i were never close, not even for a moment , we obviously stayed apart not for any serious reason but we just dint get along, the friction between the plates and the spoon made me realise i was still in the cafeteria, i walked in looking cheerful (maybe because i just spoke with beau) in  my peach dress, a pair of my favourite zara  flip-flop which complemented my hair which was draped and the dangling earings beau got me did the  final touch.  i walked in  to make my order at the office restaurant, i ordered for my Favorite  Poundo yam and egusi soup with orisirisi (different) beef and a bottle of water.  i walked to my seat obviously waiting to unravel the food when Theo caught my attention, i saw her swing her spoon in a pendulum motion, her body was physically present in the cafeteria but her mind was out,  i said hi and walked pass but because i was so happy, i turned back and sat on the table with her  “Hi Theo”, i said , she didn’t reply me, in a jovial way i said “we are not enemies you know i just wanted to have lunch with you”  i packed my tray to move to the next table, she stopped me with her right hand and said TAI sit! It was like a miracle i smiled as i sat down as she remained cold so, i asked “is everything okay Theo?” She replied “No!”

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So she started the story of how Bolu, ( Her present  boyfriend) was beginning to get her worried. Theo has entered into a purity covenant since her 300 level on campus to keep herself till her wedding night, by  400 level she met Bolu, who was having his Masters in the UK, they flowed so well even though they never saw each other before untill he finally got into the country some few months back. Ever since he got back it has been all about Bolu,  These Duos  were seen everywhere together, both on social media platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and the likes we even saw them offline too. They were the happiest and perfect couple ever, little did we know that there was more about their relationship. Theo confided in me to say Bolu never stops asking me for sex, at first we fell into it together and we prayed to God for forgiveness and promised not to do it again, only to realize that we always fell into such pit over and over again. She said ” SEX is now a part of what we share, he loves quality time and we usually end up in bed” with a glance i asked……’What would you rather do?’ ” how does he feel about this?” . ….. he sees nothing wrong with this as far as it is just him and i and that we love each other, so why not ?”

What would you rather do if you are in Theo’s shoes? Could this be an issue of misplaced code of conducts? Could this be love?  What would you rather do? #TuesdaytellwithTAI

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